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Your Laws Control You
Are you tired of repeatedly making the same relationship, career, financial, and overall life mistakes? From one painful entanglement to another, only to find yourself bogged down in the same problems with the next person, event, or situation you encounter.
Well, you’re not alone, and one way to change this pattern is to look at how you label yourself — consciously and unconsciously. Consciously, you can see with your own eyes what you’re attracted to and how you label yourself and others. What you see in your life is you — all it indicates is an awareness of what we attract and repel.
Then, unconsciously, other indicators attract you, such as what you silently label yourself: fat, skilly, poor, rich, ugly, creative, happy, sad, open-minded, closed-minded, peaceful, loving, hurt, sad — these unconscious labels are what we call our “personal laws.” These personal laws are the unconscious beliefs that keep running our lives, the undiscovered parts of ourselves, our shadow side, and core beliefs. Laws we’ve consciously and unconsciously conjured keep us from living free from identities that don’t work and from labels that limit us.
